Wednesday, April 7, 2010

The Serious Girlfriend

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I was talking to a classmate of mine, who just made me think how guys and girls see the world so much differently. Now I have a faint idea why they say Men are from Mars, and Women are from Venus.
So, it started with the fact that people say by the time you’re 18, you would’ve fallen in love. I can prove that wrong.I’m 18, and I love my parents and friends, but I haven't yet fallen in the L-word. One wish that I wish everyday other than “Please god, give good health to my parents” is “Please god, let me fall in love.” I so want to fall head over heels for someone, to see how the world looks when one is love. Of course the world even now looks like an amazing lovely place to me, but I just have this curiosity.
Anyhow, so this guy was saying how he had a serious girlfriend whom he loves, and even she loves him. And that they are going to get married and have a “dhiriulhun”, but he had side bitun. which seemed so unoriginal to me. I thought people keep changing relationships because they haven't yet found their prince charming. But now I am convinced that even when the prince gets the princess, they don’t live happily ever after. Even though I believe in fairytales, I’m now supposed to believe that they might not even exist in reality. The prince doesn't marry her, but keeps her as like a “reserve” as we say in accounting terms and well, looks for more peasants to have a relationship with. It’s just so weird and ridiculous.
And they say we girls expect too much.
I’m not sure what to think now. What if even I find my Ron, he’d still be mine, but he would still be having relationships with Lavenders?
That being said, guys are much complicated than they say. At least we girls know we are expensive, we gossip a lot, we are complicated, we say something, but mean another.We don’t pretend to be a simpleton. Not all girls are clumsy, dumb, stupid, anti-feminist Bella Swan’s.


  1. I don't think all guys are like that...having side bitun. There ARE guys who are completely faithful and loving to their girlfriends/wives. I think guys just need a balance for them to be faithful to you. When you try to control em and ask em too many Qs and be difficult, thats when they feel like having side bitun.

    Just my two cents.

    Don't lose faith in that prince charming/Ron. Just keep the image you have of him realistic ;) . Life's not a fairytale.

  2. That other comment from me was for your eyes alone. Please delete it?.


    Love is... when you find completion in another. Those who are blessed with completion are the lucky ones indeed.

    What do I mean by completion?. It is someone who is not afraid to stand by your side through thick and thin.

    This is my thoughts!... This is my belief!.... for now. :)

  3. ALSO. Tandoori Chicken = Bella Swan.

  4. If you like to know how it feels to fall in love, you can inject yourself with a cocktail of potent love hormones (like Dopamine, Serotonin, oxytocin etc)... am just kidding.

    Whether you are a boy or girl, you should forgot whatever fairy tales have taught you, cause its all fiction...You should approach this game of courtship and love in an academic manner...Its a thoroughly studied science...welcome to the real world :)

  5. you know there are girls who actually act a little dumb so the her man would feel great telling her facts, but i find this really really annoying. But one thing is for sure women just melt like butter on a mans fingertips.

    And the contextually correct word would be "zavaaji hayaatheh"

  6. A friend once told me that finding True Love is like discovering the proverbial pearl from among the rocks on the beach :) Or in a Western context, finding that needle from the haystack!

  7. Hi...

    I think you don't have to be worried about fall in love, it appears in an unexpected moment!! and it feels very nice. Just live and enjoy your youth.

  8. I know I for one cannot let this pass without a comment...

    Love dho... Big part of what i do... to help guys get thier inner beliefs ok enough so that when they meet the girl they would know how to NOT blow it...

    Love works in stange ways... I belive God make us fall in love and then burn.... again burn... and oh yea by burn i mean get heartbroken.... till we meet that right that..We will appreciate the person more and love him/her more... :)

    AS for u.. hehe well be careful for what u wish for...Fairytales are tales... but unlike fairy tales in life u have the chance to create something real...

    and yes not all guys are like me am one of them.. :)

  9. "If I were a girl, I'd despair. The supply of good women far exceeds that of the men who deserve them."
    - Robert Graves

    Love is a sacrifice; good feelings associated with love are just a byproduct.

  10. @radvixen, Hmm, that sounds acceptable enough, and thanks. xD

    @shadownrunner, hehe. did about the Bella swan thing. that makes me hungry though >.<

    @fish, I was thinking of a love potion. I'm not sure snape would like that. And now that I know how reality is, not a big fan!

    @Guygardner, I hate girls who do that. must be Bella swan cult people.
    BTW, I was quoting my classmate's exact words. I think he doesnt know the correct concept, or is lame.

    @Hilath, That friend told you right.

    @Juanito, Thanks. (=

    @Darkie, I was sure you'd comment. LOL you should also try giving advise to girls sometime. That does make perfect sense. (= hehe. Coming from you, I can believe that.

    @paul, Thanks, that proverb made me feel better already. (=

  11. How you find ideas for articles, I am always lack of new ideas for articles. Some tips would be great

  12. @anony,
    It just comes to me. Whenever something exciting happens, the first thing that comes to my mind is how to write a post. hah

    for instance, this post's idea came from a classmate who has 23 girlfriends.


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